Tuesday, May 02, 2006

when does one know it is time to let go and move on, to walk away? when do u know u can close an issue in ur life with no regrets?

when we were contemplating to make a commitment, we worry about not being able to fulfill that promise. when we r contemplating walking away, we want to do so without regrets. but reali, who's to know?

i want to walk away knowing i have tried my best.

just went out with some long long long time girlfriends of mine, and they told me not to make a harsh decision, as everyone who has heard is telling me. not to hanker after things beyond me, and to be thankful for what i have... mayb they r right, mayb i am ungrateful, and sometimes i take a step back n look at who i have, i realise, yea, mayb things r not as bad as i thought it is... but there r always times i feel i m at the end of my tether... that my limit is being stretched and i wonder what the heck was i thinking, when i got myself in such a mess...

the rational thing to do now is to work things out with a sober head - but then if i were any rational or sober at all, i wouldnt have been in this mess, would i?

this is me - emotional, sentimental, neurotic and just a wee bit insane... but always... ALWAYS a sucker for romance... what now? i ask myself this qn everyday, and i realise it isnt reali a qn i can answer alone, unless i wanna decide to walk away alone...

8 comments:

FlyingMuffyn said...

when u noe the formula to calculate the right time, tell me. I also wan to noe.

unkster said...

alamak. what happened?

kona said...

lise, you noe what i will say, right? i leave it up to you to figger out your course of action...

remember, rationality hor...

if you need a listening ear, you have my numba ;)

princesslonglegs said...

baby-faced unker, nothing happens, that's the bloody problem :))

rijac said...

jo.. sounds like marriage... HAHAHA

kona said...

LMFAO!!!

princesslonglegs said...

huh? marriage? wtfish u tokking??

kona said...

read the remark in context of your blog post lah, jo...wah piangz... =P